Informational interview: how to ask, 30 questions and a thank-you note
How to request an informational interview, 30 questions worth asking, etiquette for the conversation, a thank-you note and how to handle referrals properly.
Quick answer
An informational interview is a short conversation, usually 20 to 30 minutes, in which you ask someone who does a job you are curious about how the work really goes. You ask for information and advice, not a job. Request it in a brief message that explains your connection and goal, prepare about ten questions, end on time, and send a thank-you within a day.
Key takeaways
- Ask for information, not a job; the meeting is research, and saying so makes people more willing to agree.
- Talk to people doing the work at the level you would enter, not only senior leaders.
- Prepare about ten questions, prioritize them, and stop when the agreed time is up.
- Always ask who else you should talk to; each good conversation can lead to the next.
- Mention a specific opening only later, and only ask for a referral once the person knows you and the role fits.
What is an informational interview?
An informational interview is a brief, informal conversation with someone who works in a career, field or organization you want to learn about. You lead it, you ask the questions and the goal is information you cannot get from a job posting: what a normal week looks like, what training actually mattered, what the pay and hours are like at entry level, and what the person wishes they had known earlier.
The Bureau of Labor Statistics describes these meetings as usually lasting 20 to 30 minutes and stresses that the purpose is not to get a job but to find out whether work fits your interests, skills and personality. That framing matters: people agree more readily when they know you are not about to ask for something they cannot give.
Informational interviews are especially useful for career changers testing a new field, students choosing a specialty, people returning after time away who want to know what has changed, and anyone deciding between two job families. They also build relationships that may later lead to introductions, and they are good practice for real interviews.
Who should you ask for an informational interview?
Choose people doing the work you would actually be doing. The BLS article on informational interviewing recommends speaking with people at or near the level you would enter, because a supervisor's day may look nothing like a new hire's. One senior contact is useful for the big picture; most of your conversations should be closer to the ground.
Do basic research first. Read the occupation's profile in the Occupational Outlook Handbook or O*NET so your questions go beyond facts you could look up. If you are still choosing a direction, start with how to choose a career and use informational interviews to test your shortlist.
- People you already know, and people they can introduce you to; a mutual connection is the easiest way in.
- Alumni of your college, community college, high school or training program, often searchable through the career or alumni office.
- Members of professional associations or trade groups, including local chapter volunteers.
- Speakers, authors or panelists whose work you have read or heard, which gives you a specific reason to reach out.
- Employees at organizations you are curious about, found through LinkedIn or the organization's own staff pages.
How to ask for an informational interview (email and message templates)
A good request is short and answers four questions: how you found the person, who you are, what you want to learn and how much time you are asking for. Offer a phone or video option, suggest a range of times rather than a single slot, and make it clear you are not asking about a job. If you reach out through networking for jobs contacts, ask the mutual connection whether you may use their name.
If you get no reply, send one polite follow-up after a week or so. The BLS article suggests about three attempts in total before moving to the next name on your list. The templates below are illustrative; adapt every detail.
Subject: [School] graduate asking for career advice Hi [Name], I found you through the [School] alumni directory. I'm a [current role or student status] exploring a move into [field], and your work as a [their role] at [organization] is exactly the path I'm trying to understand. I'm not asking about job openings. I'd simply value 20 minutes to hear how you got into the field and what the day-to-day work is like. A phone or video call any time in the next few weeks would be wonderful, and I'm happy to work around your schedule. Thank you for considering it, [Your name] [Phone]
Subject: [Mutual contact] suggested I reach out Hi [Name], [Mutual contact] and I [worked together at / studied together at] [place], and she suggested you'd be a great person to ask about [field]. I've spent five years in [current field] and I'm researching whether [target role] would be a good fit. Would you have 20 minutes in the next two weeks for a short call? I'm free most afternoons, but I'll gladly fit your calendar. Thanks so much, [Your name]
Hi [Name], I enjoyed your talk on [topic] at [event]. I'm a [current role] exploring [field] and would value 20 minutes to hear how you got into it. Not job hunting with you, just learning. Would a short call in the next few weeks work?
30 informational interview questions to ask
You will not have time for all of these. Pick about ten that match what you most need to know, put the three most important first, and let the conversation wander if it is useful. Ask open questions and avoid anything you could answer with a quick search.
- The work: What does a typical week look like for you, and how much of it is spent on which tasks?
- The work: What part of the job did you underestimate before you started?
- The work: Which tasks give you the most satisfaction, and which drain you?
- The work: Who do you work with most closely, and how are decisions made?
- The work: How is success measured in your role?
- The work: How do the hours, schedule and workload change over the year?
- Getting in: How did you get your first job in this field?
- Getting in: Is your path typical, or do most people come in another way?
- Getting in: Which qualifications or certifications really matter to employers, and which are nice to have?
- Getting in: What entry-level roles offer the best learning?
- Getting in: If you were starting today with my background, what would you do first?
- Getting in: Where do people in this field usually find openings?
- The organization: How would you describe the culture on your team?
- The organization: How does this employer usually hire for roles like yours?
- The organization: What kinds of people thrive here, and who tends to struggle?
- The organization: How is this organization different from others in the field?
- The organization: What training or support do new people get?
- The field: What is changing in this field right now?
- The field: Which skills are becoming more important, and which less?
- The field: What are common misconceptions about this work?
- The field: What do typical starting pay ranges look like in this area?
- Advice and fit: From what you've heard today, what gaps do you see in my background?
- Advice and fit: Which of my experiences would translate best, and how would you describe them?
- Advice and fit: What would you want to see on a resume from someone trying to get into this field?
- Advice and fit: Are there related roles I should also look at?
- Advice and fit: What mistakes do career changers or new graduates make here?
- Advice and fit: Which associations, publications or events are worth my time?
- Closing: Is there anyone else you think I should talk to?
- Closing: May I mention that you suggested I contact them?
- Closing: Would it be all right to follow up with a quick update as I make progress?
Informational interview etiquette, from start to finish
Treat the meeting like a short professional appointment. It is more relaxed than a job interview, but the person may one day be a colleague, a reference or a hiring manager, so the impression you make counts.
Avoid asking for a job, handing over your resume without being asked, or asking personal questions such as what the person earns. Asking about typical pay ranges for the role is fine. If they offer to review your resume or pass your name along, accept graciously and follow through quickly.
- Confirm the day before with the time, format and a link or phone number.
- Arrive or log in on time, with your questions, a notepad and a current resume in case it is requested.
- Open with thanks and a 30-second introduction of your background and what you hope to learn, similar to a short answer to “tell me about yourself”.
- Let them do most of the talking, take brief notes and ask follow-up questions when something surprises you.
- Watch the clock and offer to wrap up when the agreed time is up, even if the conversation is going well.
- End by asking who else you should talk to and whether you may use their name.
What to write in an informational interview thank-you note
Send a thank-you by email within a day. Mention one specific piece of advice and what you plan to do with it, so the note shows you listened. Keep it to a short paragraph or two.
A second message a few weeks later, reporting what happened when you followed their advice, is often more valuable than the thank-you itself. It closes the loop and gives the person a reason to keep helping.
Subject: Thank you for your time today Hi [Name], Thank you for talking with me about [field] this afternoon. Your point about [specific advice] was especially helpful. I hadn't realized how much [detail] mattered, and I'm going to [specific next step] this month. I'll reach out to [referred contact] as you suggested. I appreciate your generosity with your time. Best, [Your name]
Hi [Name], a quick update: I finished the [course or certification] you recommended and had a great conversation with [referred contact]. It confirmed that [target role] is the right direction for me. Thank you again for pointing me there.
Can an informational interview lead to a job referral?
It can, but only if you keep the conversation honest. If you asked for information, do not switch to asking for a job during the meeting. If the person raises an opening or offers to pass your name along, you can say yes. Otherwise, let the relationship develop.
When a suitable role opens later, send the posting, explain in two or three sentences how you match its main requirements, and ask whether they would feel comfortable referring you or would recommend applying directly. Make it easy to decline, and never tell a recruiter that someone recommended you unless they agreed to.
Before you decide, compare notes from several conversations. The BLS article warns against basing a career decision on one person's opinion, so look for patterns across at least a few interviews and check facts such as pay and training against published sources. If you do move toward a new field, a career change resume can turn what you learned into targeted applications.
Hi [Name], you were kind enough to talk with me in [month] about [field], and your advice to [advice] helped me land [project or training]. I noticed [organization] has posted a [job title] role ([link]). It lines up with [requirement] and [requirement], which I've done at [employer]. Would you be comfortable referring me, or would you suggest I apply directly? Either way, thank you for all your help.
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Common questions
How long should an informational interview last?
Ask for 20 to 30 minutes and keep to it. That is long enough for about ten questions and short enough that busy people will say yes. When the time is up, offer to stop even if the conversation is going well; if the other person wants to keep talking, that is their choice. A phone or video call is fine and often easier to schedule than meeting in person.
Is it okay to ask for a job during an informational interview?
No. You asked for information, so switching to a job request can feel like a bait-and-switch and makes people wary of helping. It is fine to ask how the organization usually hires or what they would look for in someone with your background. If they mention an opening or offer to pass along your resume, you can gratefully accept. Save direct referral requests for a later message tied to a specific posting.
What should I say if someone asks why I want to talk to them?
Give a specific, honest reason in one or two sentences: a shared connection, their career path, something they wrote or presented, or the type of organization they work for. Then restate that you are exploring the field and want to understand the real work before committing. Specific reasons show you did your homework and make it clear that you are not sending the same message to everyone.
Should I bring a resume to an informational interview?
Have a current copy ready, but do not hand it over unless asked. Offering it unprompted makes the meeting feel like a job interview. Many people will ask about your background anyway, and some will offer to review it and suggest changes, which is valuable feedback. If you change direction after the conversation, you can send an updated version later with a short note.
How many informational interviews should I do?
Enough to see patterns rather than one person's opinion. For a career you are seriously considering, three to five conversations with people in different settings, such as a large employer, a small one and a public agency, usually give a balanced picture. Stop when new conversations mostly repeat what you already know, then test the career in a practical way, such as a short course, volunteering or a project.
Sources and editorial notes
- Informational interviewing: Get the inside scoop on careers (Occupational Outlook Quarterly, Summer 2010)Bureau of Labor Statistics article supporting the 20-to-30-minute length, the not-a-job purpose, interviewing people at your entry level, about three contact attempts, prompt thank-you notes and not relying on one person's opinion.
- Informational interview | CareerOneStopU.S. Department of Labor-sponsored guidance on what informational interviews are, how to request one and sample questions to ask.
- Informational Interviewing is Key to Your Job Search | Columbia Career EducationSupports what to include in outreach, preparing 8 to 10 prioritized questions, and asking contacts for referrals only as relationships develop.
Written by the Applystead editorial team with AI assistance, from the public sources above and original illustrative examples. Examples are not real applicant outcomes. This is general job-search information, not legal, tax or financial advice; hiring practices and local rules vary. No independent expert review is claimed. How we write and check guides.
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